feat: Add new feature to disable topicAbort at project level

[panicking]

Allow to disable the topic abort at project level. Without change the current behavior we have project where topic abort is needed at policy level and some project where we want it disabled

Testing done

Deploy in my envriroment and test if we can override the policy

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[panicking]

@rsandell here is building correctly. Is there any limitation of timeout in CI?

[rsandell]

Maybe, the same tests are breaking on another PR as well and are working fine on my machine.
I was looking at just disabling them but the feature that the tests are covering won't have any tests in that case.

[panicking]

Maybe, the same tests are breaking on another PR as well and are working fine on my machine. I was looking at just disabling them but the feature that the tests are covering won't have any tests in that case.

Can you please review or suggest change?

[rsandell]

Normally I would just delete tests that are behaving like this, but in this case it is the only tests that are testing that functionality, so I don't want to throw them away without replacements of some sort.
I have been tinkering with running a real Gerrit in docker and using testcontainers, but it turned out to be not as easy as I'd hoped.